You decided to move abroad. Congratulations! No, really. The decision to move to a new country is not an easy one, nor is it trivial. And you did it! So, again, congratulations.
Living abroad sounds glamorous until it dawns on you that the people, the food, and everything are new. And even though it still maintains its glamor for some, what happens when you realize that you’re the only black person in a room and you don’t like it? It’s important to be in a community that you feel like you belong in. Feelings of community belonging are positively connected with self-rated general and mental health. So you must be intentional in your actions, and that’s especially necessary when things get hard.
After setting your intention (i.e: to find and connect with other black expats in your host country) it’s time to do some research, mama. And since you’re here reading this, you’re already on the right track.
One of your most important tools is the internet. Whether it's a basic Google search, use the internet to your advantage when searching for expat groups in your host country. Online communities and forums are likely the most convenient way to search for and find other black expats. Some expat groups have their own platforms such as Xpat Inc., which has an app available and is dedicated to connecting the global black community living abroad.
Similarly, make use of social media. A popular option is joining Facebook groups as many black expatriate and immigrant groups exist on the platform. If these groups don’t exist yet, consider starting one for someone like you. Searching hashtags on Instagram and Twitter and asking questions on Reddit are other ways to use social media to your advantage. Through these, you can find interest groups and clubs to join. You can also use TikTok as a search engine to find events you would like to attend.
Though it may sound obvious, attend events you are interested in and connect with black people there. Apps like Eventbrite are helpful in identifying exciting events. Target Black History Month events, networking events for black professionals in your field, and business pop-ups, and keep your eyes peeled for cultural or celebratory events from your country of origin. Attend activities with other black people and be willing to learn about their culture.
Word of mouth is still an effective way to learn things, especially in a new place. Ask people who have a better understanding of the culture, your Uber driver, people who are native to the country, and other expats. Your friends will know to send you relevant information or invite you to relevant events.
Lastly, use Bumble BFF to match with other black people. Mention that you’re new to the area and would like to meet more expats in your profile. The best part about connecting with people through Bumble is that you can connect based on shared interests as well.
Be open! Don’t be afraid to do your own research but ask questions to people you meet and accept invitations from people. Resources are all over from the internet and dating apps to your neighbor.
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